Saints Peter and Paul Roman Catholic Church Lincoln
 
Parish Priest - Father Michael O'Donoghue
 
Father Michael O'DonoghueE-mail: michael.odonoghue3@ntlworld.com

The Presbytery
2a Skellingthorpe Road
LINCOLN LN6 7RB

Tel.: 01522 682278
Fax: 01522 696838

Father Michael O'Donoghue celebrated his Silver Jubilee as a Priest in 1995.

A pamphlet was printed for the Mass of Thanksgiving on Friday 2nd June 1995.

A variety of contributors gave their perspective on his life as a priest:

They will be watching from nother vantage point by Fr Tim O'Sullivan, St Mary's, Derby

Coat of Arms1946 was a difficult year in Kerry. It marked the 100th Anniversary of the Famine even though there was nobody around who remembered it. It turned out to be a bad year for farmers and those who lived off the land, but Kerry's win in the All Ireland Football Final in September provided consolation and hope as did the arrival of a son to Michael and Nora O'Donoghue of Tiernaboul, a small townland outside Killarney. They named him Michael after his maternal grandfather and he was baptised at St Mary's Cathedral in Killarney with little fuss by a young priest called Sean Quinlan who later became Professor of New Testament Studies at Maynooth. Michael was the third child in the family and brother Seamus and sister Margaret had to give way to a child, who in the opinion of the neighbours was everybody's favourite.

In his fourth year he began his formal education in the local Primary School and at thirteen he was given a bike and sent for the next five years to St Brendan's College in the town. There he joined boys from all over the Diocese of Kerry in the trials and joys of growing up and in being prepared to face life in the heady times of the 1960's. The childhood and teenage years were happy and carefree. He had a home life that was comfortable and secure. His parents doted on their children and even though their material comforts and luxuries were at a premium their home exuded happiness and a spirituality that came so easy that it might be taken for granted. The surrounding countryside where he grew up is as beautiful as any place in the world and he took full advantage of what nature was offering. He went to school barefoot in the Summertime, swam and fished in the streams and lakes, walked the hills with his young friends and as he grew older played his part in the work of the farms like all his immediate neighbours. In doing so, Michael experienced what "community" was about before he knew what the word meant or before Vatican 2 made such a fuss about it.

Football, the Gaelic version, was the game played by boys in the locality and the younger of the O'Donoghue brothers showed early promise and great interest. A promise that was fulfilled by some great displays for the SPA GAA Club during the 1960's and early'70's which was the most successful period in their history. He was strong and courageous and noted for his tenacity and loyalty. His great sense of fun and his infectious laugh which was to contribute so much to the Spirit of the Briars at Crich later, is well remembered by those team mates who never raised an eyebrow when he decided to become a priest and go to work in the Nottingham Diocese except to ask "Where in the name of God is Nottingham?". It speaks volumes about Michael and his Priesthood that 25 Years on they all still see him and treat him the same and will say "He is still the same person unaffected by the years and the Office and the Responsibilities of his Vocation".

The Six years he spent at All Hallows College in Dublin were important in his preparation for his life and work as a priest but the crucial formation was being done for years beforehand and he himself would be the first to acknowledge it. Every summer he goes home to recharge the batteries. While those who know him would say he is always a happy, cheerful person: they should really meet him in Killarney during the summer holiday when his exuberance knows no bounds. Then even a bad day on the golf course doesn't dampen his spirits.

His parents have gone to their Reward and the fact they will not be joining in the celebrations to mark his 25 years of Priesthood will be the only regret Michael and those who knew them will have. But they will be watching from another vantage point, with approval, and his Father's likely comment: "He's not doing too badly, down there" would be a typical O'Donoghue understatement.


Killarney Priest Arrives in Rutland - so the newspaper said in September 1970.

In the summer of 1970, writes Father Michael Lynch, I was informed by Bishop Ellis about my new appointment to the parish of Oakham. While on holiday in Longford during August, I was contacted by newly ordained priest, Father Michael O'Donoghue from Killarney, saying that he received a telegram from Monsignor Atkinson asking him to report to me at St. Helens, Oldcotes.

I assured him that there was no need to report to Oldcotes as I was leaving there and the parish would not warrant an assistant priest, but I did tell him that he should make plans to come to Oakham in September. Thus he gained a few more weeks of holiday to enjoy himself on the golf course in Killarney and in the meantime I took up my appointment in Oakham and awaited his arrival.

On a fine day in September I proceeded to East Midlands Airport to collect and meet for the first time the man from Tiernaboul. From the balcony I saw this young, handsome priest with his golf clubs approaching the terminal building. When he had collected his gear, I noticed that he already had in his possession a large umbrella, so I said to him "Are you expecting rain in Rutland or was it raining when you left Killarney?"

After introductions, which included Maureen who had prepared his room and a welcome to the presbytery for the new priest, we headed back to Oakham, the principal town of the old County of Rutland. The journey was a good opportunity of getting to know the young man and after many probing questions I thought to myself, "we're alright here!"

The County of Rutland was still a statutory authority at that time and had its own county council, education authority, constabulary etc. It was a unique and quite idyllic place with its lovely rural villages. The Catholic Parish covered the whole County of Rutland. Previously there had been two parishes in the county, one, St. Thomas of Canterbury at Exton, the other, St. Joseph & St. Edith at Oakham. Our job was to amalgamate the two parishes. Fr. Ainsworth was the Parish Priest at Oakham and Canon Adams the Parish Priest at Exton. Fr. Ainsworth had moved on to Bamford in Derbyshire and Canon Adams retired but continued to live in Exton. We were very much aware of his presence among us. Canon Adams was a convert and very traditional. He continued to take a great interest in the parish activities.

It was quite an extraordinary experience for two Irishmen to find themselves in the Heart of Old England and I must say, a very rewarding one. The Post Vatican II changes were beginning to come into being and I looked forward to the enlightenment provided by the young priest fresh from the seminary.

We were given the task of building a new church in Oakham and that gave us great motivation for the work ahead. In our journeys around the county, through picturesque villages discovering our flock, we received a great welcome and warm hospitality. Indeed Rutland Water now covers many of the lanes and roads that we travelled.

Fr. Michael's endearing smile won the hearts of all. Catholics and other denominations as well. He made an immense contribution towards the development of the parish. He visited the parishioners, brought a new life to the liturgies, and was socially orientated. He was a very loyal colleague and became very much part of my life during those years, and I am very happy to say has remained a great friend ever since. We linked up with many people through various social activities in the parish. One visit that had a sequel was a visit to a post-baptism party in Oldcotes for the child of Sean and Ann McCarthy. That visit paid dividends 23 years later when a horse called Fissure Seal won at Cheltenham, the price being 14-1. Sean and Ann now live in Ireland.

Fr. Michael left Oakham just before the new church was completed and went to St. Albans, Chaddesden, Derby and from there to the Briars and later to St. Thomas More, Leicester. The rest is history and so now 25 years on I thank him for his friendship and support and offer him my heartiest congratulations on this milestone in his priestly life.

There are many other things not recorded in this article but we hope written in the Book of Life.

During Father Michael's six years as Assistant Priest at St. Alban's he soon became very popular with parishioners of all ages according to Derek & Loretta Hay.

A whole meeting of the Parish in February 1975 became the starting point for many developments in the Parish that included the laity in many leadership roles. For the young he ran a thriving youth club, and for the altar servers he organised and participated in football matches. He introduced "new style Masses" making the 9.30 Sunday Folk Mass a sharp contrast to the traditional 11 o'clock sung Mass.

In making arrangements for bands to come over from Ireland to perform for members of St. Alban's Social Club, he shared his enthusiasm and love for Irish music and culture. These "ceilidhs" became known as "Father Michael's dances" and attracted crowds of people. Father Michael made a lasting impact on parishioners of St. Alban's with his charm and friendly manner, and notably his smile of acknowledgement from the altar. This was reciprocated by a warm affection for him by the people, which coupled with the fatherly guidance of Monsignor McLean, must have prepared him well for his subsequent responsibilities and achievements.

"The importance of the apostrophe"
by Maurice Cracknell


What a change of scene for Father Michael when he was moved in 1980 from being assistant priest in the city parish of St. Alban's, Chaddesden, Derby (population 3,000-odd) to be Director of The Briars at Crich (actual population half-a-dozen staff, floating population in the thousands). The latter were from schools and organisations throughout (and outside) the diocese anxious to enjoy the spiritual atmosphere created at the diocesan Residential Centre by Father Michael's predecessors, and which he set out to make available to a wider circle.

Everyone fortunate enough to have stayed at, or visited The Briars - "The Friendly Place" - has some anecdote or other to tell, some awakening to treasure some incident to laugh about.

Father Michael was to be responsible for activities for 11 happy years during which he saw three extensions come to fruition thanks to his ability to wheedle money out of local authorities, organisations and individuals.

Father Michael's laid-back attitude was deceptive for there were many times when he had to get a move on if an organised programme was to be carried out. All youngsters who have been passengers in The Briars' ageing minibus with Father at the wheel along the country lanes, which he got to know so well, will confirm this. On one such outing he came across two girls whose mini had broken down. His head was soon bowed down over the lifeless engine and his mechanical expertise enabled them to continue on their way. They could have had no inkling that the T-shirted man doing the RAC or AA out of a job was, in fact, a Catholic priest.

Perhaps he was slightly less adept at leading school parties on midnight hikes in the great outdoors, which are now enshrined in the television series Peak Practice. So far as is known, even though a few things went bump in the night, every member of the intrepid party returned safely to the haven of the Briars. As previously indicated, Father Michael's influence at The Briars was widely felt. Indeed, on golf courses up and down the land, there are probably young players intent on lowering their handicap who learned the rudiments of their game from a priest who packed his clubs with his vestments. His instructions on preparation for the priesthood might well begin with tips on how to address the ball - and a demonstration on a bit of greensward adjoining the historic Wingfield Manor, one of the stately homes where Mary Queen of Scots was imprisoned.

Introductions by and to newcomers to The Briars usually included a dissertation on the importance of the apostrophe in the surname O'Donoghue, and the spelling could be checked on a family coat of arms on the staircase leading to Father's flat.

Mention of how television has helped to put Crich more firmly on the map is a reminder that the same medium made Father Michael much more than a local or diocesan figure. A Central TV Sunday religious programme took viewers behind the scenes at The Briars. It included the emotionally charged farewell ceremonies as a stay by young people came to an end. Prayers by candlelight were punctuated by the sound of sobbing as young people said goodbye to the host of friends they had made at the Friendly Place.

Those of us who would love to be able to make sense of architect's drawings could do worse, even now, than have a word with Father Michael who had to interpret plans for extensions and alterations to The Briars at the same time as he was appealing for financing. Just as you cannot make an omelette without breaking eggs, some chaos is inevitable when big booted builders invade your tranquillity. However, Father Michael and his dedicated team (some of them former students at The Briars) triumphed over the inconveniences, which is of great benefit to today's visitors. The Princess Royal opened the extensions, an occasion which provided more media coverage for Father Michael.

He is beloved in the minds of irreverent youth in another way - of which he is probably unaware, because there was much amusement when he strolled about The Briars in conversation with another priest from our diocese.

Father Michael would be the first to admit that he his hardly the tallest priest in the diocese. That distinction must go to Father Brendan O'Sullivan, now parish priest at Boston and at one time chaplain to catechetical camps held at the Briars by the Catholic Women's League, and who is about 6ft. 5in. Young people in their care dubbed the pair as the Little and Large show!

Arrival in Knighton by Sister Ethna McGrath OSC

By 18th September 1991 an air of gloom had settled over St. Thomas More's. The impending exodus i.e. the departure of Canon Shaw, Fr. Mark Casey and Nora Hill had proved too much. However, at exactly 9.06 on the evening of that same day a joyful sound was heard on Knighton Road as honking horns announced the arrival of the new Parish Priest. A mini convoy was heading for the car park and Fr. Michael's radiant smile as he took a right turn into Southernhay Road put a bit of cheer into my sad heart. Naturally those who had known him over a long period of time were delighted to see him.

Not all the luggage had arrived at 9.00pm - the next delivery was at 12.15am! This time, alerted by Neighbourhood Watch, some members of our ever-ready police force found the welcoming party. No less than six police vans sped towards no. 75. Puzzled by all the activity and convinced that burglars were making the most of an opportune time to seize some valuable items they surrounded the building. Fr. Gregory Tobin became suspect no.1 as he reversed the Briars minibus into the yard.

Needless to say some explanation had to be given. The not guilty plea was accepted and so our new pastor could avail himself of accommodation in the Presbytery rather than in Welford Road.

Fr. Michael came to Leicester with what could be described as a Franciscan aim - to build the Church - not with bricks and mortar but with people. All along the Parish Community has been his main concern, parish visiting started the day after his arrival. Since then he has continued to serve with great zeal and self sacrifice bringing his own special charism to enrich peoples' lives.

"Indeed we are alright"
by The Reverend Deacon John Tear


Really further comment is superfluous, the previous paragraph sums it up very nicely. From his very first day Father Michael has worked long and hard in his role as our Parish Priest. Extremely conscientious in his care for all, from the very young to the oldest, never sparing himself in visiting, always ready to make time to talk to anyone who needs his counsel. He never fails to consult parishioners about ideas he has for the parish, as is evidenced by the setting up of the Parish Ministerial Team to deal with every aspect of Parish life. It is a tribute to him that the enthusiasm and dedication which he showed in his first appointment at Oakham twenty five years ago is just as fresh and undiminished now, indeed it is even greater. We can do no more than echo Father Lynch's comments when he first met him - "we're alright here!" Indeed we are alright, it is a privilege to work with Father Michael here at the St. Thomas More Parish.

The Knighton Nineties
by Helena Baron

Disbelief, despondency, and despair rocked St Thomas More’s Parish in July 2000 when news broke of FR Michael’s impending departure to Lincoln. Plans quickly began, however, to mark Fr Michael’s nine years in the parish, culminating in a Goodbye Mass celebrated on Sep 30th. This liturgy and subsequent party underlined the vibrant spirituality and active caring of the people nurtured and developed by Fr Michael.

From September 1991 Fr Michael quickly endeared himself to the people of Knighton thanks to his personal charm, charisma, and dedication. Care for the individual, from the youngest to the oldest, was a hallmark of his ministry. Three parish missions in Nine years strengthened the sacramental life of the parish. Children in the school, enjoying the interest that he took in their individual stories, eagerly anticipated his visits across the road Parishioners looked forward to the weekly sports report preceding the six o’clock mass on Saturday. Visitors to the presbytery could not fail to notice the ever increasing silverware highlighting Fr Michael’s success at and love of golf. Through the youth group meeting on a Sunday evening Fr Michael extended his influence upon and his concern for young people. An important feature of the 11o’clock mass was the development of the children’s liturgy. The ‘Drop-Ins’ on a Thursday morning delighted in Fr Michael’s rapport with them, enjoying his warm smile from the altar and his stories at coffee.

· In 1993 John Tear (RIP) was ordained to the permanent diaconate, becoming FR Michael’s right hand man. Sadly Deacon John died the night before Fr Michael left for Lincoln.

· Chris O’Connor was ordained to the priesthood in 1995. Chris spoke movingly at the Goodbye Mass of Fr Michael being ‘his priest’; someone he could always turn to.

· The Parish was privileged to be able to share in Fr Michael’s Silver Jubilee Celebration, also in 1995. This is documented elsewhere but the uplifting mass presided over by the Bishop cannot go unmentioned.

· St Thomas More Primary School developed apace during the last decade of the millennium. Numbers expanded, a new classroom was built and the school appeared in the Times Top 100 Primary schools. Fr Michael played an active role as Chairman of Governors encouraging staff and students to strive for the ideal of Catholic education.

· An ambitious re-ordering of the church took place in 1996 and its calm, its beauty, and its atmosphere of prayer immediately strikes anyone now entering the Church.

· A Parish Ministerial Team continued and developed the work of many already established parish groups. This team continues to meet regularly, carrying on the challenge of active Christianity placed before us by Fr Michael. The Parish Centre, built as part of the Church re-ordering project, is a hive of activity most evenings.

· At the end of June 2000 the Parish gathered for an outdoor mass to mark the millennium. The Jubilee celebrations had begun with a powerful liturgy on New Year’s Eve when the message of Jesus Christ, Yesterday, Today, and Forever was proclaimed. The outdoor mass, attended by over 600 parishioners, was followed by a parish picnic. Renewal of our Jubilee Promises led to thanksgiving for the many blessings bestowed on the people of Knighton

The stardust sprinkled by the children, as a sign of prophecy at the Goodbye Mass remains firmly embedded in the carpet, resisting all attempts by vacuum cleaners to remove it. The Parish Mission is equally firmly embedded. Inspired by Fr Michael we continue to try in our small way ‘to achieve great things for God’. Fr Michael shared in our lives listening to and holding our personal stories. He became a friend and counsellor to many people supporting us in time of sorrow and sharing in our joy. Fr Michael’s energy, commitment, and smile have left a lasting mark in Leicester. No doubt the leadership of this deeply spiritual priest will similarly inspire the people of Lincoln.

And – which is more – you’ll be the Parish Priest of Ss Peter and Paul’s……… By S Gilluly

It seems appropriate to say a little about Fr Michael’s arrival in the parish of Ss Peter and Paul, Lincoln. On reading the previous account concerning the farewell Mass at St Thomas More’s and remembering that Fr Michael’s first sight of his new parish church was a church covered in dust from the long delayed work on the entrance to the Church, the famous poem by Rudyard Kipling came to mind:

If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same”

Fr Michael arrived in the parish on Friday, 13th October 2000 and will be welcomed as our ‘new’ Parish Priest on 2nd May 2001. Since arriving, he has seen the Church transformed from a place of worship masquerading as a building site to a place of worship of which the parish can be proud. A totally ramped front entrance now leads to a welcoming red carpet that softens the décor and lightens the spirit. But of more importance to our new parish priest is the community of which he has now become part for as long as there is work to be done. Small changes that are visibly noticeable are the involvement of the young footsteps children around the altar at the 11am Sunday morning masses and the change from a small Parish Council to a Parish Ministerial Team, a change of name that reflects how it is hoped the group will come to function. All changes and developments take time. The parish of Ss Peter and Paul is one of the largest in the diocese and the ministry of the parish priest must reach to all sections of the community, from the richest to the poorest, those who come to worship at the church to those who have not been for a while (or possibly not at all), to the pupils and their families of the primary and secondary schools in the parish, and those women currently being held at HMP Morton Hall. Sometimes, then, I wonder if these lines from the poem are also applicable:

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the will which says to them ‘hold on’.

Fr Michael Lynch (also referred to in previous accounts) has retired to the parish and helps with some of the Masses and Fr Michael is still playing golf on Tuesdays (so things can’t be that bad!). Over the years the parish has developed many groups of lay people working together to bring the Word of God alive to those around them (see the Parish Organisation page). With the help of these groups, the parish will continue to grow and develop as a community founded on the love and compassion of God – as for our new parish priest, one line from the poem that needs no ‘If’ is:

All…… count with you, but none too much

So:
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings – nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run –
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be the parish priest of Ss Peter and Paul’s my son!


 
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