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Father Michael O'Donoghue
celebrated his Silver Jubilee as a Priest in 1995.
A pamphlet was printed for the Mass of Thanksgiving on Friday 2nd
June 1995.
A variety of contributors gave their perspective on his life as a
priest:
They will
be watching from nother vantage point by Fr Tim O'Sullivan, St Mary's,
Derby
1946
was a difficult year in Kerry. It marked the 100th Anniversary of
the Famine even though there was nobody around who remembered it.
It turned out to be a bad year for farmers and those who lived off
the land, but Kerry's win in the All Ireland Football Final in September
provided consolation and hope as did the arrival of a son to Michael
and Nora O'Donoghue of Tiernaboul, a small townland outside Killarney.
They named him Michael after his maternal grandfather and he was
baptised at St Mary's Cathedral in Killarney with little fuss by
a young priest called Sean Quinlan who later became Professor of
New Testament Studies at Maynooth. Michael was the third child in
the family and brother Seamus and sister Margaret had to give way
to a child, who in the opinion of the neighbours was everybody's
favourite.
In his fourth year he
began his formal education in the local Primary School and at thirteen
he was given a bike and sent for the next five years to St Brendan's
College in the town. There he joined boys from all over the Diocese
of Kerry in the trials and joys of growing up and in being prepared
to face life in the heady times of the 1960's. The childhood and
teenage years were happy and carefree. He had a home life that was
comfortable and secure. His parents doted on their children and
even though their material comforts and luxuries were at a premium
their home exuded happiness and a spirituality that came so easy
that it might be taken for granted. The surrounding countryside
where he grew up is as beautiful as any place in the world and he
took full advantage of what nature was offering. He went to school
barefoot in the Summertime, swam and fished in the streams and lakes,
walked the hills with his young friends and as he grew older played
his part in the work of the farms like all his immediate neighbours.
In doing so, Michael experienced what "community" was
about before he knew what the word meant or before Vatican 2 made
such a fuss about it.
Football, the Gaelic
version, was the game played by boys in the locality and the younger
of the O'Donoghue brothers showed early promise and great interest.
A promise that was fulfilled by some great displays for the SPA
GAA Club during the 1960's and early'70's which was the most successful
period in their history. He was strong and courageous and noted
for his tenacity and loyalty. His great sense of fun and his infectious
laugh which was to contribute so much to the Spirit of the Briars
at Crich later, is well remembered by those team mates who never
raised an eyebrow when he decided to become a priest and go to work
in the Nottingham Diocese except to ask "Where in the name
of God is Nottingham?". It speaks volumes about Michael and
his Priesthood that 25 Years on they all still see him and treat
him the same and will say "He is still the same person unaffected
by the years and the Office and the Responsibilities of his Vocation".
The Six years he spent
at All Hallows College in Dublin were important in his preparation
for his life and work as a priest but the crucial formation was
being done for years beforehand and he himself would be the first
to acknowledge it. Every summer he goes home to recharge the batteries.
While those who know him would say he is always a happy, cheerful
person: they should really meet him in Killarney during the summer
holiday when his exuberance knows no bounds. Then even a bad day
on the golf course doesn't dampen his spirits.
His parents have gone
to their Reward and the fact they will not be joining in the celebrations
to mark his 25 years of Priesthood will be the only regret Michael
and those who knew them will have. But they will be watching from
another vantage point, with approval, and his Father's likely comment:
"He's not doing too badly, down there" would be a typical
O'Donoghue understatement.
Killarney Priest Arrives in Rutland - so the
newspaper said in September 1970.
In the summer of 1970, writes Father Michael Lynch, I was informed
by Bishop Ellis about my new appointment to the parish of Oakham.
While on holiday in Longford during August, I was contacted by newly
ordained priest, Father Michael O'Donoghue from Killarney, saying
that he received a telegram from Monsignor Atkinson asking him to
report to me at St. Helens, Oldcotes.
I assured him that there
was no need to report to Oldcotes as I was leaving there and the
parish would not warrant an assistant priest, but I did tell him
that he should make plans to come to Oakham in September. Thus he
gained a few more weeks of holiday to enjoy himself on the golf
course in Killarney and in the meantime I took up my appointment
in Oakham and awaited his arrival.
On a fine day in September
I proceeded to East Midlands Airport to collect and meet for the
first time the man from Tiernaboul. From the balcony I saw this
young, handsome priest with his golf clubs approaching the terminal
building. When he had collected his gear, I noticed that he already
had in his possession a large umbrella, so I said to him "Are
you expecting rain in Rutland or was it raining when you left Killarney?"
After introductions,
which included Maureen who had prepared his room and a welcome to
the presbytery for the new priest, we headed back to Oakham, the
principal town of the old County of Rutland. The journey was a good
opportunity of getting to know the young man and after many probing
questions I thought to myself, "we're alright here!"
The County of Rutland
was still a statutory authority at that time and had its own county
council, education authority, constabulary etc. It was a unique
and quite idyllic place with its lovely rural villages. The Catholic
Parish covered the whole County of Rutland. Previously there had
been two parishes in the county, one, St. Thomas of Canterbury at
Exton, the other, St. Joseph & St. Edith at Oakham. Our job
was to amalgamate the two parishes. Fr. Ainsworth was the Parish
Priest at Oakham and Canon Adams the Parish Priest at Exton. Fr.
Ainsworth had moved on to Bamford in Derbyshire and Canon Adams
retired but continued to live in Exton. We were very much aware
of his presence among us. Canon Adams was a convert and very traditional.
He continued to take a great interest in the parish activities.
It was quite an extraordinary
experience for two Irishmen to find themselves in the Heart of Old
England and I must say, a very rewarding one. The Post Vatican II
changes were beginning to come into being and I looked forward to
the enlightenment provided by the young priest fresh from the seminary.
We were given the task
of building a new church in Oakham and that gave us great motivation
for the work ahead. In our journeys around the county, through picturesque
villages discovering our flock, we received a great welcome and
warm hospitality. Indeed Rutland Water now covers many of the lanes
and roads that we travelled.
Fr. Michael's endearing
smile won the hearts of all. Catholics and other denominations as
well. He made an immense contribution towards the development of
the parish. He visited the parishioners, brought a new life to the
liturgies, and was socially orientated. He was a very loyal colleague
and became very much part of my life during those years, and I am
very happy to say has remained a great friend ever since. We linked
up with many people through various social activities in the parish.
One visit that had a sequel was a visit to a post-baptism party
in Oldcotes for the child of Sean and Ann McCarthy. That visit paid
dividends 23 years later when a horse called Fissure Seal won at
Cheltenham, the price being 14-1. Sean and Ann now live in Ireland.
Fr. Michael left Oakham
just before the new church was completed and went to St. Albans,
Chaddesden, Derby and from there to the Briars and later to St.
Thomas More, Leicester. The rest is history and so now 25 years
on I thank him for his friendship and support and offer him my heartiest
congratulations on this milestone in his priestly life.
There are many other
things not recorded in this article but we hope written in the Book
of Life.
During Father Michael's
six years as Assistant Priest at St. Alban's he soon became very
popular with parishioners of all ages according to Derek & Loretta
Hay.
A whole meeting of the Parish in February 1975 became the starting
point for many developments in the Parish that included the laity
in many leadership roles. For the young he ran a thriving youth
club, and for the altar servers he organised and participated in
football matches. He introduced "new style Masses" making
the 9.30 Sunday Folk Mass a sharp contrast to the traditional 11
o'clock sung Mass.
In making arrangements
for bands to come over from Ireland to perform for members of St.
Alban's Social Club, he shared his enthusiasm and love for Irish
music and culture. These "ceilidhs" became known as "Father
Michael's dances" and attracted crowds of people. Father Michael
made a lasting impact on parishioners of St. Alban's with his charm
and friendly manner, and notably his smile of acknowledgement from
the altar. This was reciprocated by a warm affection for him by
the people, which coupled with the fatherly guidance of Monsignor
McLean, must have prepared him well for his subsequent responsibilities
and achievements.
"The
importance of the apostrophe"
by Maurice Cracknell
What a change of scene for Father Michael when he was moved in 1980
from being assistant priest in the city parish of St. Alban's, Chaddesden,
Derby (population 3,000-odd) to be Director of The Briars at Crich
(actual population half-a-dozen staff, floating population in the
thousands). The latter were from schools and organisations throughout
(and outside) the diocese anxious to enjoy the spiritual atmosphere
created at the diocesan Residential Centre by Father Michael's predecessors,
and which he set out to make available to a wider circle.
Everyone fortunate enough
to have stayed at, or visited The Briars - "The Friendly Place"
- has some anecdote or other to tell, some awakening to treasure
some incident to laugh about.
Father Michael was to
be responsible for activities for 11 happy years during which he
saw three extensions come to fruition thanks to his ability to wheedle
money out of local authorities, organisations and individuals.
Father Michael's laid-back
attitude was deceptive for there were many times when he had to
get a move on if an organised programme was to be carried out. All
youngsters who have been passengers in The Briars' ageing minibus
with Father at the wheel along the country lanes, which he got to
know so well, will confirm this. On one such outing he came across
two girls whose mini had broken down. His head was soon bowed down
over the lifeless engine and his mechanical expertise enabled them
to continue on their way. They could have had no inkling that the
T-shirted man doing the RAC or AA out of a job was, in fact, a Catholic
priest.
Perhaps he was slightly
less adept at leading school parties on midnight hikes in the great
outdoors, which are now enshrined in the television series Peak
Practice. So far as is known, even though a few things went bump
in the night, every member of the intrepid party returned safely
to the haven of the Briars. As previously indicated, Father Michael's
influence at The Briars was widely felt. Indeed, on golf courses
up and down the land, there are probably young players intent on
lowering their handicap who learned the rudiments of their game
from a priest who packed his clubs with his vestments. His instructions
on preparation for the priesthood might well begin with tips on
how to address the ball - and a demonstration on a bit of greensward
adjoining the historic Wingfield Manor, one of the stately homes
where Mary Queen of Scots was imprisoned.
Introductions by and
to newcomers to The Briars usually included a dissertation on the
importance of the apostrophe in the surname O'Donoghue, and the
spelling could be checked on a family coat of arms on the staircase
leading to Father's flat.
Mention of how television
has helped to put Crich more firmly on the map is a reminder that
the same medium made Father Michael much more than a local or diocesan
figure. A Central TV Sunday religious programme took viewers behind
the scenes at The Briars. It included the emotionally charged farewell
ceremonies as a stay by young people came to an end. Prayers by
candlelight were punctuated by the sound of sobbing as young people
said goodbye to the host of friends they had made at the Friendly
Place.
Those of us who would
love to be able to make sense of architect's drawings could do worse,
even now, than have a word with Father Michael who had to interpret
plans for extensions and alterations to The Briars at the same time
as he was appealing for financing. Just as you cannot make an omelette
without breaking eggs, some chaos is inevitable when big booted
builders invade your tranquillity. However, Father Michael and his
dedicated team (some of them former students at The Briars) triumphed
over the inconveniences, which is of great benefit to today's visitors.
The Princess Royal opened the extensions, an occasion which provided
more media coverage for Father Michael.
He is beloved in the
minds of irreverent youth in another way - of which he is probably
unaware, because there was much amusement when he strolled about
The Briars in conversation with another priest from our diocese.
Father Michael would
be the first to admit that he his hardly the tallest priest in the
diocese. That distinction must go to Father Brendan O'Sullivan,
now parish priest at Boston and at one time chaplain to catechetical
camps held at the Briars by the Catholic Women's League, and who
is about 6ft. 5in. Young people in their care dubbed the pair as
the Little and Large show!
Arrival
in Knighton by Sister Ethna McGrath OSC
By 18th September 1991 an air of gloom had settled over St. Thomas
More's. The impending exodus i.e. the departure of Canon Shaw, Fr.
Mark Casey and Nora Hill had proved too much. However, at exactly
9.06 on the evening of that same day a joyful sound was heard on
Knighton Road as honking horns announced the arrival of the new
Parish Priest. A mini convoy was heading for the car park and Fr.
Michael's radiant smile as he took a right turn into Southernhay
Road put a bit of cheer into my sad heart. Naturally those who had
known him over a long period of time were delighted to see him.
Not all the luggage had
arrived at 9.00pm - the next delivery was at 12.15am! This time,
alerted by Neighbourhood Watch, some members of our ever-ready police
force found the welcoming party. No less than six police vans sped
towards no. 75. Puzzled by all the activity and convinced that burglars
were making the most of an opportune time to seize some valuable
items they surrounded the building. Fr. Gregory Tobin became suspect
no.1 as he reversed the Briars minibus into the yard.
Needless to say some
explanation had to be given. The not guilty plea was accepted and
so our new pastor could avail himself of accommodation in the Presbytery
rather than in Welford Road.
Fr. Michael came to Leicester
with what could be described as a Franciscan aim - to build the
Church - not with bricks and mortar but with people. All along the
Parish Community has been his main concern, parish visiting started
the day after his arrival. Since then he has continued to serve
with great zeal and self sacrifice bringing his own special charism
to enrich peoples' lives.
"Indeed
we are alright"
by The Reverend Deacon John Tear
Really further comment is superfluous, the previous paragraph sums
it up very nicely. From his very first day Father Michael has worked
long and hard in his role as our Parish Priest. Extremely conscientious
in his care for all, from the very young to the oldest, never sparing
himself in visiting, always ready to make time to talk to anyone
who needs his counsel. He never fails to consult parishioners about
ideas he has for the parish, as is evidenced by the setting up of
the Parish Ministerial Team to deal with every aspect of Parish
life. It is a tribute to him that the enthusiasm and dedication
which he showed in his first appointment at Oakham twenty five years
ago is just as fresh and undiminished now, indeed it is even greater.
We can do no more than echo Father Lynch's comments when he first
met him - "we're alright here!" Indeed we are alright,
it is a privilege to work with Father Michael here at the St. Thomas
More Parish.
The Knighton
Nineties
by Helena Baron
Disbelief, despondency,
and despair rocked St Thomas Mores Parish in July 2000 when
news broke of FR Michaels impending departure to Lincoln.
Plans quickly began, however, to mark Fr Michaels nine years
in the parish, culminating in a Goodbye Mass celebrated on Sep 30th.
This liturgy and subsequent party underlined the vibrant spirituality
and active caring of the people nurtured and developed by Fr Michael.
From September 1991 Fr
Michael quickly endeared himself to the people of Knighton thanks
to his personal charm, charisma, and dedication. Care for the individual,
from the youngest to the oldest, was a hallmark of his ministry.
Three parish missions in Nine years strengthened the sacramental
life of the parish. Children in the school, enjoying the interest
that he took in their individual stories, eagerly anticipated his
visits across the road Parishioners looked forward to the weekly
sports report preceding the six oclock mass on Saturday. Visitors
to the presbytery could not fail to notice the ever increasing silverware
highlighting Fr Michaels success at and love of golf. Through
the youth group meeting on a Sunday evening Fr Michael extended
his influence upon and his concern for young people. An important
feature of the 11oclock mass was the development of the childrens
liturgy. The Drop-Ins on a Thursday morning delighted
in Fr Michaels rapport with them, enjoying his warm smile
from the altar and his stories at coffee.
· In 1993 John
Tear (RIP) was ordained to the permanent diaconate, becoming FR
Michaels right hand man. Sadly Deacon John died the night
before Fr Michael left for Lincoln.
· Chris OConnor
was ordained to the priesthood in 1995. Chris spoke movingly at
the Goodbye Mass of Fr Michael being his priest; someone
he could always turn to.
· The Parish was
privileged to be able to share in Fr Michaels Silver Jubilee
Celebration, also in 1995. This is documented elsewhere but the
uplifting mass presided over by the Bishop cannot go unmentioned.
· St Thomas More
Primary School developed apace during the last decade of the millennium.
Numbers expanded, a new classroom was built and the school appeared
in the Times Top 100 Primary schools. Fr Michael played an active
role as Chairman of Governors encouraging staff and students to
strive for the ideal of Catholic education.
· An ambitious
re-ordering of the church took place in 1996 and its calm, its beauty,
and its atmosphere of prayer immediately strikes anyone now entering
the Church.
· A Parish Ministerial
Team continued and developed the work of many already established
parish groups. This team continues to meet regularly, carrying on
the challenge of active Christianity placed before us by Fr Michael.
The Parish Centre, built as part of the Church re-ordering project,
is a hive of activity most evenings.
· At the end of
June 2000 the Parish gathered for an outdoor mass to mark the millennium.
The Jubilee celebrations had begun with a powerful liturgy on New
Years Eve when the message of Jesus Christ, Yesterday, Today,
and Forever was proclaimed. The outdoor mass, attended by over 600
parishioners, was followed by a parish picnic. Renewal of our Jubilee
Promises led to thanksgiving for the many blessings bestowed on
the people of Knighton
The stardust sprinkled
by the children, as a sign of prophecy at the Goodbye Mass remains
firmly embedded in the carpet, resisting all attempts by vacuum
cleaners to remove it. The Parish Mission is equally firmly embedded.
Inspired by Fr Michael we continue to try in our small way to
achieve great things for God. Fr Michael shared in our lives
listening to and holding our personal stories. He became a friend
and counsellor to many people supporting us in time of sorrow and
sharing in our joy. Fr Michaels energy, commitment, and smile
have left a lasting mark in Leicester. No doubt the leadership of
this deeply spiritual priest will similarly inspire the people of
Lincoln.
And
which is more youll be the Parish Priest of
Ss Peter and Pauls
By S Gilluly
It seems appropriate to say a little about Fr Michaels arrival
in the parish of Ss Peter and Paul, Lincoln. On reading the previous
account concerning the farewell Mass at St Thomas Mores and
remembering that Fr Michaels first sight of his new parish
church was a church covered in dust from the long delayed work on
the entrance to the Church, the famous poem by Rudyard Kipling came
to mind:
If you can meet with
triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same
Fr Michael arrived in
the parish on Friday, 13th October 2000 and will be welcomed as
our new Parish Priest on 2nd May 2001. Since arriving,
he has seen the Church transformed from a place of worship masquerading
as a building site to a place of worship of which the parish can
be proud. A totally ramped front entrance now leads to a welcoming
red carpet that softens the décor and lightens the spirit.
But of more importance to our new parish priest is the community
of which he has now become part for as long as there is work to
be done. Small changes that are visibly noticeable are the involvement
of the young footsteps children around the altar at the 11am Sunday
morning masses and the change from a small Parish Council to a Parish
Ministerial Team, a change of name that reflects how it is hoped
the group will come to function. All changes and developments take
time. The parish of Ss Peter and Paul is one of the largest in the
diocese and the ministry of the parish priest must reach to all
sections of the community, from the richest to the poorest, those
who come to worship at the church to those who have not been for
a while (or possibly not at all), to the pupils and their families
of the primary and secondary schools in the parish, and those women
currently being held at HMP Morton Hall. Sometimes, then, I wonder
if these lines from the poem are also applicable:
If you can force
your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the will which says to them hold on.
Fr Michael Lynch (also
referred to in previous accounts) has retired to the parish and
helps with some of the Masses and Fr Michael is still playing golf
on Tuesdays (so things cant be that bad!). Over the years
the parish has developed many groups of lay people working together
to bring the Word of God alive to those around them (see the Parish
Organisation page). With the help of these groups, the parish will
continue to grow and develop as a community founded on the love
and compassion of God as for our new parish priest, one line
from the poem that needs no If is:
All
count
with you, but none too much
So:
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds worth of distance run
Yours is the Earth and everything thats in it,
And which is more youll be the parish priest
of Ss Peter and Pauls my son!
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